If you are still wondering why I wrote this, please read this page: "Why You Should Stay Manly, By Doctor Dr. John McAdams" This page is in response to all the comments I received from men. There was a lot of misinformation.
I have seen too many men in my practice who have been told that the most important thing is that you are more manly. This is very important for the sake of the women you are having sex with, but is very false. I have seen women become angry at me for writing such a thing. The message I am getting from the women is that we are weak and we need to be "manly." I believe it is because women don't have the knowledge to know what is manly and what is not. The most important part of a man is not the man, it is the manhood. The woman needs to learn to trust a man, or else she can't be the best sex partner for him. If you have a man and you have sex with women, you are a man. If you have no male sex partner, you are not a man. That is very clear, and should be very clear for anyone that isn't a woman.