The products are also listed with links to Amazon. The products with a * are not recommended. These are products I have been using over time, but some may be less effective than others.
I'm not a professional but these are products I've had experience with. They are not endorsed by me. In order of effectiveness: 1) Oral sex - oral sex is my favorite method of power play and I like to use all the same methods I recommend for vaginal sex. 2) Female anal/female oral - the male and female anal sex methods can sometimes be a bit much for a woman who is a little sensitive. I do the female anal and female oral once or twice a week, and usually have a partner who is also into it, but this is not the most common way. I do the male anal and male oral once a week. I am not into this specific form of power play, as that involves a penis, but I do find that it's the easiest and most natural for me. 3) The Vaginoplasties (aka "virgin birth" and "virgin birth by cunnilingus"): This is one of the most powerful types of vaginal and anal sex. It works because a man is able to enter and get inside the woman without having to use his penis first. A man's penis is too long to use for vaginal and anal penetration.